Never Confuse What You Do, With Who You Are.

I found that picture recently. Look at that smile. Pure joy, playing Brick House on Friday night with Brad and Nick in the basement in front of the wall of Bud. It got me thinking about how we change over the years. I mean, I still love to play and sing. I just don't do it as much. I was talking to a friend tonight and he said a Rabbi friend of his told him to "never confuse what you do, with who you are." So I figured now was a good time to post this little ditty.

One reason we change is because of our careers. How we 'earn a living'. It's easy to fall into the trap of equating our professions with our identities. After all, we spend a significant portion of our lives working, often dedicating years to building careers. However, it's crucial to remember that what we do for a living does not define our entire existence. Our jobs may be a significant aspect of our lives, but they are just one part of the multifaceted tapestry of our personalities. When we blur the lines between our professional roles and our personal identities, we risk losing sight of our true selves and neglecting the other dimensions of our lives that bring fulfillment and happiness.

When we tie our self-worth solely to our careers, we become vulnerable to fluctuations in the professional sphere. Job loss, career changes, or setbacks can lead to a profound sense of identity crisis if we have overly identified with our work. Furthermore, defining ourselves solely by our professions can limit our growth and potential. We are complex beings with diverse interests, passions, and talents beyond our chosen careers. Embracing these other facets of our identity not only enriches our lives but also fosters resilience and adaptability in the face of challenges.

Maintaining a healthy balance between work and personal life is essential for overall well-being. By recognizing that our professions are just one aspect of who we are, we can cultivate a greater sense of fulfillment and satisfaction in all areas of our lives. Nurturing relationships, pursuing hobbies, and engaging in activities that bring us joy outside of work can contribute to a more holistic sense of self. Ultimately, remembering that we are more than our jobs empowers us to lead more authentic, fulfilling lives.

Thanks for reading. Now, I'm going to go play guitar. It is Friday night after all. Let's hear it - What are you going to do?